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Every relationship has ups and downs, but it can be hard sometimes to figure out whether or not you should break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Think about how many songs people have written about a broken heart? •He controls who you hang out with, what you wear, or what you are allowed to do.

•Your boyfriend hits you or hurts you physically in any way. •He forces you, or pressures you to have sex with him or to do things you don’t want to do. •You can’t talk to him about how you are feeling of what you are thinking. •You don’t have feelings for him anymore, or your feelings have changed.Your are well aware of your inner feminine self and you instincts to nurture and love, but you suppress them (as you've been implicitly told to do by your parents or the culture around you) and men assume you are cold and boring.You know that you are an incredibly sexual person, but because of your strict conservative upbringing, you cloak it in "modesty" and men are turned off.I've illustrated an example of this in the diagram below.A woman who is a 5.5 out of 10 has the potential to be a 7.5, so she "knows" that she can get men of that caliber (), and she is constantly being rejected by them.The reason women can't get what they think they deserve is that we (men and women alike) always peg our standards to what we know we can be, not to what we are, while members of the opposite sex judge us - understandably - only on what we are currently.

They have no access to the inner workings of our mind; and even if they did, they would have no guarantee that we'd ever reach the potential this would reveal to them.

And the simple advice for women in this situation (which I have seen on other blogs, and have occasionally given out myself) is sometimes appropriate: "you aren't hot enough to get the guys you want; lower your standards." However, in most cases, I think there is deeper phenomenon at work.

Women tend to be aware of and rate their looks fairly accurately.

And though I agree that this happens, it doesn't capture the whole picture.

Women just aren't that easily deceived about their own physical attractiveness.

She doesn't understand why, since she thinks these men are in her league, when the truth is that she could get into their league.