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I think FWB's are very similar to not ever getting married .would certainly have to keep the excitement up in the relationship to expect your FWB to keep coming back to you.least it's an honest relationship.both know what you want, and being friends, you certainly have the option of "justing hanging out"....damn, I've fallen to the darkside and am in the serious position of obtaining me one of those FWB's.... why is it so hard just to find a a friend with benifits?
and that's ok - but it leads to some of the instability which you have encountered.So, either you set your goals differently or you change fishing holes... Given your age and real geographical location, I suggest that there are venues in real life which might be more conducive to you finding what you are seeking.However, these forums can be a great place to ask questions or glean bits about human behavior.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...So, yes, statistically you would do better to abandon FWB for dating or friends. Chances are, you will find women who will understand that, if you are honest.** "reasonable" is very subjective and probably could be discussed over the course of several dates...-i dunno maybe it's just cause i been screwed over on what few dates ive had in live and i do mean few i just stuck in the fwb world and ive been in that world so long im finding it hard to get out of even though neither world has worked .
well just plain out i dunno what to do anymore Well OP maybe you need to take the Sex out of the equation.
There are a lot of reasons why people want liasons without necessarily being ready to "commit" - which is sort of what FWB or FB is about...
a way a passing time and satisfying urges without the work or drama of emotional commitments (or the closeness or comfort of a true alliance with someone who has your back - flip side same coin).
In fact I'd say its harder than any other type of intimate relationship.
What you need to do is look in the right places (Craigslist, somespamsite, or any pay site) for sex, and only hope that friendship might come out of it.
You say that neither world has been working well for you. (which is what I sense you are trying to do)You have been a pleasant surprise with your willingness to consider the ideas of others...