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Having only the best intentions, George’s parents took me on a three week cruise of the Baltics four months after he died.I sleepwalked through much of it, too tired to enjoy the fast-paced sightseeing and being out of my comfort zone.

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Created specifically to bring together widowed singles, The Widow Dating Club is a friendly dating site helping widowers of all ages find love again.Blogging has shown me older daters are a cynical lot. Losing a spouse is always a difficult time, but when you're ready to move on and meet new people, The Widow Dating Club is a great place to chat to people who understand what you've been through.Trying to date before I’d processed George’s death caused unnecessary turmoil both for me and the guys I was seeing.I started “beta-dating” a few months after my loss, thinking I’d start practicing.This is a hard one because you might not know until you try.

I tried dating a nice Jewish yogi lawyer (just like me) four months after losing George. Everything we did reminded me of something George and I had done or eaten or seen or hadn’t had the chance to do because his life had been cut short. I also had a lot of guilt over having been George’s caregiver.

I needed companionship NOW, which meant I needed it too much. I dated a couple guys who wanted me to change to meet their needs. But one year into my loss, I worried, “What’s wrong with me? ”If someone doesn’t recognize your wonderfulness, that’s their problem.

But when you’re feeling super vulnerable, being rejected is devastating.

But I was still too wounded and vulnerable, making me needy.

If my date cancelled or wasn’t available, I was plunged into despair.

The first year and a half, even two years, after my loss I was often exhausted.