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Some PUA schools have specific subsets of tactics for landing these wiley 10s, as though big-game hunters trying to bring down a king cheetah instead of your run of the mill gazelle or okapi. If treating women like points seems as though it’s a form of gamification of dating… Part of the point of many Pick Up schools is to reduce dating to a formula… Pick up is often referred to as “dating cheat codes” – a way of circumventing the “rules” of the game in order to get what you want with minimal effort.Much of this comes from the use of canned routines and concepts like the “emotional progression model” from classic Mystery Method/Love Systems – it’s human interaction as a flow-chart. When she responds, you move to routine B or C; if it’s not working out as you’d hoped, you have back-up routines and material to fall back on – “boyfriend destroyers”, anti-AMOG tactics, and the like.
But in PUA culture, the rating is treated as a than a 6 or a 7 because she’s going to be that much “harder” to “game”.This unhelpful attitude can frequently be found in the comments section of articles talking about the PUA community – the phrase “losers”, “freaks” and the like are tossed around fairly freely, which reinforces the idea that In many ways it’s easier for women.Women are socialized to be more open with their feelings and insecurities, to not feel ashamed for asking for help or admitting weakness.PUA culture deals with this pervasive fear by in a multitude of ways.The most obvious is the use of the 10 scale – referring to women in field reports (effectively “after action” reports of how their night went, posted to various forums and sub-reddits) as HB (for “hot body”) 7 or 8 instead of by name.In many cases, our major source of how to get women to like us are our peers – and that’s often a case of the blind leading the blind.
Moreover, those who are blessed with a seemingly-innate affinity to women – “Naturals” in PUA lingo – often don’t what they’re doing.
Some of it is good, some of it is awful, and some of it is absolutely absurd, but it’s There isn’t as much out there for men.
We have precious few role-models for how to approach women we want to sleep with in a healthy, respectful way.
I think that, when approached rationally and sanely that it can be a valuable resource. But if you It’s fascinating in a perverse sort of way that such disdain is heaped on someone wanting to get better at getting women to like them.
The state of dating advice for men is, frankly, fairly abysmal. If a young man were to decide that he wanted to get better at math, nobody would blink twice at his finding a tutor or taking extra classes.
With some experience, you will learn to differentiate the I am actually not anti-pick up in general.